embodiment. PLAY. aliveness.
Are you tired of tiptoeing around your rage? Of uncovering your traumas slowly and consciously, only to feel like you’re still trapped? Maybe you’ve tried yoga or ecstatic dance in your quest to achieve mindfulness, but your anger still gnaws at you and reveals its ugly head sometimes, unexpectedly or through a kind of chronic pain. Maybe you’ve been to workshop after workshop, seeking peace, yet find yourself and your body raging at an abuser who’s long gone but still alive in you.
IMAGine a world where being in your body feels like the freshest breath of air, like swimming in a cool lake on a hot summer day, like savouring the most exquisite desert.
Your Body, Your Story, Your Way.
Through conscious kink and BDSM, I invite you to break the rules that never served you, and find the true source of your aliveness in your body. You can also reclaim your sense of agency over your body, your sexuality, and your way of relating to others, to truly enjoy the juicy taste of life.
Your pain, your pleasure, your shadows, and your scars aren’t flaws—they’re raw materials, to build something fierce, honest, and unmistakably yours. This is your space to defy, to create, and to reclaim aliveness on your own terms.
WHY CONSCIOUS KINK?
Conscious kink offers you a consensual space where you can pause and look at your scary, intense, heavy emotions, and learn that they aren’t so scary after all. Whether it’s a lingering rage after surviving sexual trauma, a fear to take more space or overwhelming anxiety - creating a space where you can freely experience and channel these emotions in a guided and consensual way will open up ways for you to live a life freed of old patterns.
If you have ever felt overwhelmed by the grip of chronic pain overtaking your body, your mind, your time and your emotional capacity, you are not alone. Practicing impact play helped me learn that physical sensations aren’t unbearable and they might be even pleasurable.
Practicing kink consciously grows your capacity to be with emotional and physical intensity. And I would like to show you how.
HI, I’m lavinia
As an architect, I’ve built spaces for people to live in. At Scars&Roses, I design spaces for people to feel alive in. I know this terrain because I have walked it before. When my boundaries were tresspassed at a young age, I didn’t lose something—I never had the chance to build it. From the wreckage, I created something that felt like mine for the first time: strong, raw, and unmistakably me.
WORK WITH ME.
1:1 SESSIONS
Break free from limiting patterns and reclaim your confidence, desires, and agency through a playful, consensual, and conscious exploration of power dynamics. Unlock your sense of aliveness, clarity, and a deeper connection to yourself along the way.
couple sessions
Unlock deeper intimacy, effortless pleasure, and playful exploration in your relationship by exploring the dance of trust, power, and surrender in a safe space.
PRIVATE RITUALS
Step into transformative, magical spaces of permission, where the journey unfolds beyond what is known, into a container of potential and endless possibilities of play, exploration and self-discovery.